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How is "Choice"Â is the 9th "C" of Self in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy?
In Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy, Self is characterised by the 8C's. There is a 9th "C" quality that can be added to these qualities which is very important: choice. Choice promotes the empowerment that is inherent in the other qualities of Self-energy. This post digs into how supporting clients to find choice is vital in the therapeutic process.
Sean Cuthbert
21 hours ago4 min read


When Helping Hurts: Understanding Caretaker Parts in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
Caretaker Parts are one of the most socially rewarded, but internally burdened parts in IFS Therapy. Learn how they are formed, and how we can help them become less extreme, by approaching them with compassion and curiosity, using Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy.
Sean Cuthbert
May 256 min read


The Power of Presence: How "the Self" Leads Trauma Recovery in IFS
The Self is the primary healing mechanism in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy. Find out how accessing the Self can minimise the pain of accessing the past in trauma therapy using IFS.
Sean Cuthbert
May 235 min read


10 Questions to Ask When Choosing an Internal Family Systems (IFS) Trained Therapist: A Guide to Finding the Right Fit for Your Therapy
Here are some questions you can ask potential IFS trained therapists when seeking to participate in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy that may help you make the important decision.
Sean Cuthbert
Apr 187 min read


Common Misconceptions about Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
This post clears up common misconceptions about Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy. Get clarity around what IFS is, and what it is not.
Sean Cuthbert
Mar 85 min read


The "U-turn": a foundational skill in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
The "U-turn" is a core skill of Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy inviting radical self-reflection in a moment of relational rupture.
Sean Cuthbert
Jan 263 min read


Compassion and Empathy in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy: Practical Applications
Compassion and empathy are key elements in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy. Find out how these qualities operate in the IFS framework
Sean Cuthbert
Nov 17, 20244 min read


Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy: A "Constraint-Release" Model of Psychotherapy
Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy stands out as a unique modality as it is a "constraint-release" model of psychotherapy.
Sean Cuthbert
Oct 13, 20243 min read


Respecting Protectors: Gaining Permission from Managers and Firefighters in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
Gaining permission from protective parts before working with Exiles in IFS is essential. Here's why, and how to go about it.
Sean Cuthbert
Sep 29, 20243 min read


Digging into the 5 P's of Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
I've written a lot about processes in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy, and so far I have yet to do any digging into the all...
Sean Cuthbert
Aug 23, 20244 min read


Navigating Self-like parts in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy: detecting, and working with, covert blocks and obstacles
Navigating Self-like Parts in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy can be tricky. Here's some things to look out for that will help you.
Sean Cuthbert
Aug 22, 20244 min read


How do people change with Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy?
What are the mechanisms of change in Internal Family Systems (IFS), and how is this different from other modalities?
Sean Cuthbert
Jul 21, 20244 min read


Releasing the burdens of "Toxic Masculinity": The transformative power of Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy understands "toxic masculinity" as parts with extreme beliefs about what it means to be a man.
Sean Cuthbert
Dec 30, 20233 min read


Befriending your "Inner Critic" using Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy: a practical guide
Befriending your Inner Critic using Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy can be transformational. This quick sample dialogue demonstrates.
Sean Cuthbert
Sep 25, 20236 min read


IFS and attachment theory in action: which part of you is choosing your partners?
Wondering why your romantic life is difficult? Internal Family Systems (IFS) can help discern which part of you chooses your partners.
Sean Cuthbert
Jun 11, 20236 min read


What are "Self-like Parts" in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy?
Is a Self-like part running your life, and your therapy? If you're not sure, check and see if you have an agenda for what may happen.
Sean Cuthbert
Jan 18, 20232 min read


The Soul Nerve and Trauma Recovery
How do polyvagal-informed therapies like Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy allow the full mind-body system to be the focus of therapy.
Sean Cuthbert
Nov 2, 20205 min read


Men and their angry parts
A lot of men come to therapy - or are told to come to therapy - to deal with their angry parts. Here's what that looks like practically...
Sean Cuthbert
Oct 12, 20182 min read


Why should you practice mindfulness?
Unless you’re living in a cave (like a monk), you’ve probably noticed that mindfulness is everywhere. There are many well-known apps...
Sean Cuthbert
Oct 12, 20185 min read
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