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When Caretaker Parts Burn Out: An IFS Perspective on Therapist Exhaustion
Therapist burnout is a hot topic in the field of psychotherapy. Taking an IFS Lens on the topic reveals that burnout is the result of hardworking caretaker parts leading the therapist's system, resulting in exhaustion for the therapist, and invisible limits placed on the client's progress through rescuing rather than empowering.
Sean Cuthbert
Nov 285 min read


Roles, Not Types: The Dynamic Nature of Parts in IFS Therapy
Many new to IFS Therapy think parts must be classified as Managers, Firefighters, or Exiles. Yet true freedom comes from seeing that parts aren’t fixed types and they simply take on roles that evolve, revealing the deeper flexibility and healing potential within our inner system.
Sean Cuthbert
Nov 85 min read


The Secret Fears of Protector Parts in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
Protective parts in IFS Therapy are driven by fear. Find out what the 10 most common protective fears are, and how to negotiate effectively with protective parts so they will relax and trust.
Sean Cuthbert
Oct 165 min read


The "People Pleaser" Through the Lens of Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
This post examines people pleasing through the lens of Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy. Learn how people pleasers come to be prominent parts of the psyche and how you can befriend and help them transform through the IFS Therapy process.
Sean Cuthbert
Oct 46 min read


Internal Family Systems (IFS) for Perfectionists: Freeing Yourself from Inner Critics
Suffer from Perfectionism, or get called a Perfectionist? Here's an IFS Understanding of Perfectionism and Perfectionists and how to connect to this systems of parts.
Sean Cuthbert
Sep 116 min read


What are the 6F's of Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy?
What are the 6F's in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy, and why are they so important in the process of getting to know your parts? Find out in this insightful blog post.
Sean Cuthbert
Aug 285 min read


Understanding the Difference Between Parts and the Burdens They Carry in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
In Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy, distinguishing between parts and their burdens is essential in understanding the change process. Here I write about this important difference.
Sean Cuthbert
Aug 264 min read


How is "Choice"Â is the 9th "C" of Self in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy?
In Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy, Self is characterised by the 8C's. There is a 9th "C" quality that can be added to these qualities which is very important: choice. Choice promotes the empowerment that is inherent in the other qualities of Self-energy. This post digs into how supporting clients to find choice is vital in the therapeutic process.
Sean Cuthbert
Jun 154 min read


Seeking a Deeper Understanding of the "Inner Critic": What does it Protect in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
The Inner Critic protects against a range of Exiles in IFS. Learn about the specific types of Exiles that Inner Critics Protect in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
Sean Cuthbert
May 35 min read


10 Questions to Ask When Choosing an Internal Family Systems (IFS) Trained Therapist: A Guide to Finding the Right Fit for Your Therapy
Here are some questions you can ask potential IFS trained therapists when seeking to participate in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy that may help you make the important decision.
Sean Cuthbert
Apr 187 min read


Common Misconceptions about Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
This post clears up common misconceptions about Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy. Get clarity around what IFS is, and what it is not.
Sean Cuthbert
Mar 85 min read


Respecting Protectors: Gaining Permission from Managers and Firefighters in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
Gaining permission from protective parts before working with Exiles in IFS is essential. Here's why, and how to go about it.
Sean Cuthbert
Sep 29, 20243 min read


Digging into the 5 P's of Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
I've written a lot about processes in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy, and so far I have yet to do any digging into the all...
Sean Cuthbert
Aug 23, 20244 min read


How do people change with Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy?
What are the mechanisms of change in Internal Family Systems (IFS), and how is this different from other modalities?
Sean Cuthbert
Jul 21, 20244 min read


Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy: A Biomimicry Approach to Healing
Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy is the prime example of a biomimicry approach to healing in the mental health and psychotherapy field.
Sean Cuthbert
Jun 13, 20243 min read


IFS and attachment theory in action: which part of you is choosing your partners?
Wondering why your romantic life is difficult? Internal Family Systems (IFS) can help discern which part of you chooses your partners.
Sean Cuthbert
Jun 11, 20236 min read


Types of "Inner Critic" in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
Working with Inner Critics is a common process in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy. The 7 types of Inner Critics are discussed here.
Sean Cuthbert
Oct 2, 20224 min read


The "Self" in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
The Internal Family Systems (IFS) model holds that each of us has a Self - who each of us is at our core with our parts separate. In this post, discover what the Self is in IFS, and why it's important to the change process.
Sean Cuthbert
Jul 11, 20215 min read


The Soul Nerve and Trauma Recovery
How do polyvagal-informed therapies like Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy allow the full mind-body system to be the focus of therapy.
Sean Cuthbert
Nov 2, 20205 min read


Connecting to your "Inner Critic" using Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Harsh Inner Critics are some of the most challenging parts to deal with both in therapy and in life. Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy doesn't try and shut the Inner Critic down or push it away; instead we turn toward it with curiosity and ask it how it is trying to help us? This sets the scene for a new relationship to build, and change to happen.
Sean Cuthbert
Aug 16, 20205 min read
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