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The Secret Fears of Protector Parts in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
Protective parts in IFS Therapy are driven by fear. Find out what the 10 most common protective fears are, and how to negotiate effectively with protective parts so they will relax and trust.
Sean Cuthbert
Oct 165 min read


The "People Pleaser" Through the Lens of Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
This post examines people pleasing through the lens of Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy. Learn how people pleasers come to be prominent parts of the psyche and how you can befriend and help them transform through the IFS Therapy process.
Sean Cuthbert
Oct 46 min read


Internal Family Systems (IFS) for Perfectionists: Freeing Yourself from Inner Critics
Suffer from Perfectionism, or get called a Perfectionist? Here's an IFS Understanding of Perfectionism and Perfectionists and how to connect to this systems of parts.
Sean Cuthbert
Sep 116 min read


Understanding the Difference Between Parts and the Burdens They Carry in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
In Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy, distinguishing between parts and their burdens is essential in understanding the change process. Here I write about this important difference.
Sean Cuthbert
Aug 264 min read


Seeking a Deeper Understanding of the "Inner Critic": What does it Protect in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
The Inner Critic protects against a range of Exiles in IFS. Learn about the specific types of Exiles that Inner Critics Protect in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
Sean Cuthbert
May 35 min read


Respecting Protectors: Gaining Permission from Managers and Firefighters in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
Gaining permission from protective parts before working with Exiles in IFS is essential. Here's why, and how to go about it.
Sean Cuthbert
Sep 29, 20243 min read


Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy: Common manager roles in a shame-prone system
Proactive manager parts are extremely active in shame-prone systems. Find out what they look like here and start to notice them.
Sean Cuthbert
Jun 10, 20243 min read


Working with Protective Parts in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
In Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy, working with protective parts is key, as these parts have survival strategies from early life.
Sean Cuthbert
Feb 25, 20223 min read


The "Self" in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
The Internal Family Systems (IFS) model holds that each of us has a Self - who each of us is at our core with our parts separate. In this post, discover what the Self is in IFS, and why it's important to the change process.
Sean Cuthbert
Jul 11, 20215 min read


Connecting to your "Inner Critic" using Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Harsh Inner Critics are some of the most challenging parts to deal with both in therapy and in life. Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy doesn't try and shut the Inner Critic down or push it away; instead we turn toward it with curiosity and ask it how it is trying to help us? This sets the scene for a new relationship to build, and change to happen.
Sean Cuthbert
Aug 16, 20205 min read


Trailheads in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
What are trailheads in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy, and how are they different from what is commonly known as a "trigger"? Find out why the trailhead is a more useful concept for therapy and the change process by reading more.
Sean Cuthbert
Oct 13, 20185 min read


Shame and Exiles in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
In Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy, shame is a two-part problem: critics that shame, and exiles that hold that shame. In this post found out more about how we can help the parts involved in the shame process, and transform them back into their original state.
Sean Cuthbert
Oct 13, 20185 min read
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